What's the difference between a traditional funeral and a cremation service? Why would someone choose one over the other?
There are many reasons why more and more people over the last 30 years have elected cremation at the time of death rather than a traditional funeral. These include practical, spiritual, economic, environmental, and other reasons, but the important thing to remember is that but for the actual procedure of cremation itself, there doesn't have to be any difference between one service and the other. That said, many families have found that a cremation service introduces other possibilities that might not have been considered with a traditional funeral, including special gathering arrangements, ash scatterings, and a range of memorial options. The bottom line is that today's funeral professional can help you make a funeral or cremation service as traditional or as creative as you wish.
How do you/I go about deciding where to hold a funeral service or cremation?
There are many reasons why a family could choose one funeral home over another in a community, including awareness, reputation, proximity, previous experience, a “word of mouth” personal referral, plus many very practical considerations such as services, pricing, and so forth. Of course, not all funeral homes serve as crematories, so this is a key consideration when you begin to explore cremation. It's generally advisable that when choosing a funeral home that offers cremation that you make sure the funeral home is registered with the Cremation Association of North America (CANA). CANA maintains a database of registered members (see http://www.cremationassociation.org/html/search-dir.php) as well as other helpful information. Some questions you'll want to ask when considering a cremation provider include:
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Does the provider adhere to a particular code of cremation ethics? Is this posted clearly in the organization or made readily available to you upon inquiry?
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Are the cremations performed by this provider done onsite? If so, can you take a tour of the actual cremation facility? If not, then who performs the cremations for this provider and where?
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Does the provider or municipality where the provider is located require identification of the body before cremation? What is the procedure to track identification through the entire cremation process, including verification of the cremated remains?
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Typically, how much time elapses between the provider's receiving of the deceased and the actual cremation of that deceased? Does the provider provide onsite refrigeration facilities prior to cremation?
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Who certifies the provider's crematory operators and equipment? Is there evidence of this certification readily available? How up-to-date is the certification?
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Does the provider allow a designated family member or other individual to witness the cremation? How are the cremated remains handled after the cremation, especially if an urn has not been provided or purchased prior to the procedure?
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How does the provider dispose of prosthetics and other artificial elements in the course of the cremation process?
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Does the provider have a list of recent references for its services?
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Has the provider ever had a complaint recorded by the local Better Business Bureau or governing health agency or other legal entity?
Obviously, there are many items to consider in evaluating the right cremation provider for your family. We encourage you to learn more about organizations currently offering cremation, including a number of MasterTouch funeral professionals around the country.
What is the cost of cremation versus a traditional funeral? How does the cost of cremation compare with burial or entombment?
A cremation service can be less than a traditional funeral, but it's difficult to make a direct, “apples-to-apples” comparison given the range of services now available through your MasterTouch Professional. From casket choices to gathering ceremonies to specific kinds of memorials, it's very possible that some cremation services may cost a little more than a traditional funeral, or just the opposite. This is where we encourage you to have a candid conversation about costs and benefits with your cremation provider. To give you some idea of the way cremation services are now “packaged” within the MasterTouch Program, please read more about available MasterTouch Silver, Gold, and Platinum Packages here.
Which funeral professionals are necessary? Is a funeral director necessary?
Many jurisdictions require a licensed professional to transport a body and to obtain the necessary permits for the handling, cremation, or traditional burial of that body. Funeral directors are typically those with this kind of formal, licensed credential, and in some cases may be the only professionals permitted to provide these services. Normally, the licensed funeral director performs the same legally recognized functions during traditional funerals or cremations, even if the funeral director's “team” includes other specific professionals such as a crematory operator.